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Showing posts with label My Life. Show all posts
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Wednesday, July 1, 2026

My Journey to Tingtibi - The Beginning of My Civil Service Career

Article Series
Bronze Medal
Series of Articles

Receiving the Bronze Medal for 10 years of service to the nation is a deeply meaningful milestone in my civil service journey. Through this article series, I will look back on the past decade, reflect on my contributions, and share the experiences, challenges, lessons, and growth that have shaped my service to the nation.

In 2014, I appeared for the Royal Civil Service Examination (RCSE). When the results were declared, I was fortunate to be selected into the civil service fraternity. Like many young graduates, I was excited to have secured a job without having to compete in the job market. At that time, I did not fully understand what it meant to take the oath of a civil servant or the responsibilities that came with it. I was simply happy and proud to be employed.

After the induction programme, the placement process began. Many in-service candidates had also qualified through the examination, and postings were allocated based on merit ranking. My first choice was the Trashigang Regional Office under the Department of Roads (now the Department of Surface Transport).

During oath-taking ceremony

However, things did not go as planned.

During the placement discussions, some adjustments became necessary. It was then that I heard the name "Tingtibi" for the very first time. Nobody seemed willing to go there. The officer who had initially selected Tingtibi was reluctant to take up the posting, and the situation became difficult to resolve.

After some discussion among ourselves, it became clear that the issue could only be settled if someone volunteered to take the Tingtibi posting. For the greater good of my friends and colleagues, I agreed to choose Tingtibi—a place I had never heard of before.

That decision marked the beginning of an unforgettable journey.

After completing the induction programmes conducted by the Ministry and the Department, I received a sheet of paper containing the contact details of the Chief Engineers under the various regional offices. Soon afterwards, I began my journey to my first posting.

The route from Thimphu to Gelephu was familiar to me, as I had travelled there before. The road beyond the Gelephu Tshachu Junction, however, was entirely new.

At the Gelephu taxi stand, I hired a taxi for Nu. 3,000. The driver was a middle-aged Nepali-speaking gentleman. With my few belongings loaded into the vehicle, we set off towards my new destination.

As we passed the Tshachu Chorten and entered unfamiliar territory, everything felt different. The vegetation reminded me of places where I had grown up, but the landscape and surroundings were completely new. The road wound through lush green forests, crossed scattered settlements, and climbed steadily through thick jungle.

Eventually, we reached Tamala, the highest point between Gelephu and Zhemgang. From there, the road descended, passing the large white chorten at Tama. After travelling further, we arrived at a small town.

"This is Tingtibi," the driver said.

We asked a passerby for directions to the Department of Roads office. Following the directions, we crossed a brown-coloured bridge and drove past a chorten. A few small shops lined the roadside. Then I saw a pink building with a signboard in front.

A smile appeared on my face.

Tingtibi RO as is seen today. 

"Here we are," said the driver.

At last, I had arrived at my destination—a place that had been completely unknown to me only a few weeks earlier.

After paying the driver, I unloaded my belongings from the Maruti van. Looking at my few possessions, he quietly remarked, "It is winter and it will be cold here." His words suggested that I had arrived without many of the necessities a newcomer would normally bring, such as blankets and warm bedding.

But I was content.

I had always believed that people could adapt to any situation and that there was always a way forward. With gratitude, I thanked the driver and waved goodbye.

Standing in front of the office, I took out the contact sheet and called the number I had been given. The officer answered and told me that he would come outside.

A minute later, I saw a gentleman wearing a black gho walking towards the entrance. He waved at me, and I followed him inside the office.

It was during office hours.

We shook hands as we met for the first time.

"Welcome," he said.

"Thank you," I replied.

After a brief pause, he looked at me and asked, "Is this your first day in the office? You are reporting in casual clothes?"

I smiled and explained, "Yes. I have come directly from my journey. Headquarters gave me your number, and I called as soon as I arrived."

After some formalities, I was introduced to the caretaker of the office. He showed me to a room that would become my accommodation. It was a small, shabby room filled with old documents and files. There was a bed pushed against one side of the wall and a small attached toilet.

It was far from luxurious, but it was mine.

That modest room marked the beginning of my life as a civil servant—a young officer starting his career in a completely unfamiliar place, far from home, with little more than determination, optimism, and the willingness to adapt.

Looking back today, that journey to Tingtibi was not just a transfer to a remote office. It was the first lesson of public service: sometimes the most meaningful journeys begin in places we never planned to go.

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Monday, January 19, 2026

Hope on the Distant Horizon

For the celebration of the Bhutanese New Year, I went to the shore. The shore was dusty, dry, and cold. There were sounds of birds chirping. I looked up and saw flocks soaring high in the sky. Far distant, as I lowered my gaze, I saw the bright sun offering a comforting warmth. Here, I contemplate my thoughts, realizing we have a long way to go... 

Far beyond the horizon, you rise bright. 
Here, in the dryness of winter cold, I stare. 
Ponder my thoughts beyond, to achieve might, 
And vow that none shalt stand who does not dare. 

The bright sun from the shore. 




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Wednesday, January 11, 2017

Comeback

Some years ago, I promise to keep my blog up-to-date. That was when I was a college student. Exactly, with the new beginning of 2017 I am two years in service. Student and working life is two complete different things. The focus target being student is only one - study. Service life comes with numerous plans and targets. Moreover working with road sector, someone needs to adjust with many ad hoc activities and get least time to sit in office and do paper works.
More than seventy percent of time is spent out of office at sites monitoring and supervising various works. It is tough at times especially during monsoon seasons. Better I don't elaborate more on my working life now. I will share my experiences in times to come. In the meantime, I have few resolutions for the year which both concern my professional and personal life.
1.       Ghat tracing survey to connect Zhemgang and Mongar
2.        Walk from Khomshar to Ringdibi
3.       Read 20 books
4.       Learn Total Station instrument and LisCAD software fully
5.       Write life experiences as road engineer
6.       Learn RevitArchitect software fully and design Sub-Division office
7.       Reduce site visit and spend more time in office.
8.       Learn driving & basic mechanics of car  
9.       Learn more photography skills

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Tuesday, June 21, 2016

My driver got a Gift

I and my teammates, consisting of a forest range officer, junior engineers, and a driver, were on an excursion one fine Sunday to Chamkhar chu and a nearby small stream. The day was filled with joy. We collected fern and mushroom. We tried our luck to bait trout. Not for killing and eating, but for outlandish study by an engineer! It was a long wait sitting on the huge boulder, eyeing to feel the jerk. There was no bite. 

Crab found in Sibjigang stream

We went on to a small tributary. We left no stone unturned in search of trout to see what it really looks like. I heard it is among the most delicious fish. Finally, we got one. The ranger confirmed it to be snow trout. I photographed it.

In the meanwhile, I posed for photographs with fish on my palm. I directed my driver to focus on the trout on the palm with a blurred background. The fish was stifling without water. After a few shutter sounds, I said, "It is ok, enough. The fish is dying." 

Snow trout found in tributary of Chamkhar chu

After a while we rested under the cool umbrella of a huge tree. We drank Foster and juice to refresh ourselves. I was going through the photos snapped during our course of exhaustive search for fish.
'Where is my photo with fish?' I inquired of him. 'Here,' he pointed to the photo below after scrolling a few.  

A gift or token of remembrance. Simply cool!!

I was like, WHAT?!!!, after seeing the photo. He was simply smiling and said, 'Keep it as a token of long remembrance, sir.'

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Monday, June 6, 2016

Friday, May 20, 2016

Therang - Shingkhar GC Road construction II

Starting from the feasibility study to construction was divisive. Controversies hindered the project by almost three months. Initially people discussed and minuted to change alignment, diverting away from the mandate of having the GC road be the shortest possible. The initial construction by the Dzongkhag administration deviated from the mandates outlined in the Guidelines and Specifications. The gradient was high enough for vehicles to ply. The department had to propose the gradient correction work for 3.18 km in length, and unluckily certain length of the road passes through private land. Repeated bulldozing through private land proved injustice. Yet, holistic discussions with the landowner made it a success.

The target for this fiscal year was 8.10 km. The total length of the road as per the feasibility survey report was 11.32 km. 3.18 km was already trace cut by Dzongkhag but left with a high gradient, and the department had to do correction work. Despite public unfriendliness with the construction work, management risked completing the whole remaining length (8.1 km) in this fiscal year.
Roads are the topmost priority of the government and people's wants and needs as well. It is a crucial facility for development and prosperity. Impossibility is guaranteed to develop far-flung villages and communities without a road network.
Gradient correction work through pvt land. 
Everywhere, the concerns may be similar. People grant and sign a no objection agreement if a road passes through their private land during the initial stage of feasibility studies. During the construction stage, people aren't happy because they care about their land since it is their livelihood. This disagreement arose during the construction of the Shingkhar GC road. It marked as the most controversial road construction in the history of the Department of Roads, with frequent media reports at the national level.

Despite hectic pressure from the public, construction management was a real challenge. It is best to act holistically, considering the laws of the land. No one is above the law. The last resort for every disagreement is with laws and the system to decide. Decision-taking is the toughest, and pronouncing the advantage of larger interest is best. Never decide in view of self-gain. Lead with laws, and every problem will have strict solutions. Finally, few individuals were apprehended.
Lyonpo Lekey's recent visit to his Gewog connected with road. 
People tense when the law acts. After apprehension, apprehensive thought about the project was ended. Construction progressed well, and it is my glory to inform the general public that the construction of the Therang-Shingkhar GC road is completed. Yet an additional length of 1.24 km to the proposed new gewog center is under construction. Hopefully by the beginning of fiscal year 2016-2017 it will be completed.

I applaud and thank my concerned site engineer for the dedicated work, and as a team we grow. 
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Wednesday, January 6, 2016

The Moon

It is my privilege to work for the people in a little-known village called Nimshong at Upper Kheng, where my project office is based. More privilege: I am getting to know numerous new people and new places under my jurisdiction. Places are beautiful. People are awesome, and learning Khengkha (local dialect) is fun. Sitting with old people and knowing the new culture and tradition is an even greater source of pride.

On a reclining seat through a bumpy road and thick jungle, a grumble in my mind of the journey. The journey for site visits is tiring, yet it is jovial in the wild to see the beauty of diverse wildlife. I have to travel day and night occasionally. More or less I have become a rover. Least, I get to stay idle in the office relaxing with paperwork. At the end of the day I am happier to know that I am balanced with office work and site work. This is what my life should be. Yes, definitely!


That day was fine. It was my time to complete paperwork. After office hours, I went for a walk on a dusty road. Singing with the evening dawn chorus of little birds and seeing the preparatory dance for their evening time was wonderful alone. By the time I remembered to return, it was already dusk. Oh! Remember, I was dating those little birds.


I came back. The light from above was on. I stared up. There was a full moon glowing fresh. The beauty in it captured my mind to focus my lens. Though it hides under the blanket of cloud, the real inner beauty is seen illuminating. The moon is beautiful with lovable activism. I miss my angel then.

I had to quicken my pace in between. It was dark. Back home alone again, waiting for the next day and routine to follow up. 


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Saturday, January 2, 2016

Bless the Year

2015 was a fruitful year. Many wonderful accomplishments were added up in the chronicle of my life revolution. At the very beginning of the bygone year, I got my appointment order from RCSC with the Department of Roads, further with the Regional Office, Tingtibi. After the office commenced operations in the Regional Office, I once again took on the significant responsibility of Project Engineer to oversee the road projects in Upper Kheng. Among all the projects, the construction of the controversial Shingkhar GC road is particularly challenging. I have gained much new knowledge, skills, techniques, and technological advancements regarding road construction throughout my professional life. Yet, again with the new 2016, I beseech, “Bless the Year.”

Welcome, 2016. I don’t have any specific resolutions, but I am sure I’ll do my best for anyone who can relate to me. Happy 2016!

With the year's end, I want to share beautiful pictures of little birds captured in the wild of Upper Kheng. 









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Sunday, September 13, 2015

If I die young....

Thank you, people, for making me believe that such people do exist in this seemingly mundane world. If I die young, I wouldn’t have to face knowing all those grievances that they have to claim for.

People say life is all about experience. It is all about serving others. I am serving others, and I don’t mind getting lost in that service.

Today, people express one opinion, but tomorrow they may express a completely different one. Here in front of me they will promise, and tomorrow they are otherwise. People are unbelievable. Today the river is flowing down, and tomorrow it is the same. Here in front of me the sun rises from the east, and tomorrow it will be the same. Nature remains unchanged. It is people who change, not nature. If I die young, I won’t have to face the dishonest nature of a timid mind.

Within not even a year of my working life, from grassroots to the top, I got to climb. The journey got to deal with all about fear and challenges. Why should the root be strong? And why should the tree topple if the roots are not strong? We stand united. Divided we fall. If I die young, I won’t know the reality of united we stand.

Democracy isn’t all about shouting grievances. It comes with responsibility and accountability. I am not responsible for teaching you democracy. I am responsible to serve you as best I can. Let democracy flourish, not be blemished with autocracy. But first understand it and act. If I die young, I wouldn’t have to bear the grumble of misconstrued democracy.

Sun, as it claims, is fearless.  Through my lens...

The sunflower claims the sun for its own and is idle and firm where I am. From the mild bud to the sunny, fearless flower, I will accomplish my goals and embrace life fully.

Life is all about experiences, and if I die young, I won’t experience what it is.

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Wednesday, July 22, 2015

The Desktop Background

The passion and desire to be a talented photographer come with challenges and frustrations. Photographing those moving objects is much more exasperating. I was hunting for the best to capture and save it as my screen background on my laptop. Finally, I was able to capture a photo that I consider good, and I hope to add more excellent images to my collection in the future.

Zhemgang is rooted in jungles. These jungles house millions of beautiful flora, fauna, animals, birds, and creatures. Loitering and leisure in that seemingly mundane world are the best. I love to live and see those beautiful, lively aromas of nature surrounding me. Yes, I hold a deep affection for Zhemgang, and I am dedicated to serving the residents of remote villages in Upper Kheng. 

A beautiful butterfly sit on the golden flower
Never knew that time to capture
Yet blind I am to see faith and fate. 

The Desktop background 


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Sunday, June 21, 2015

Blogging vacation for long

The situation left me idle, idle that was totally silent.
The fact is simple and straightforward—I was new to work.
Study and work are two entirely different things to consider and believe.
Yes, working with no guidance is tough and challenging.

More challenging is that you are someone's immediate head.
When I have to decide and give directions, that is tougher.
The toughest is when you have to deal with a larger interest, the public.
It becomes more controversial when many grievances collide.
emotionalistdiaries.com
Yes, I am working selflessly dedicated to benefits for larger interests.  
The UK times in those seemingly mundane arenas shall prevail ever.
The good news is that the UK is developing as time gallops.
I am living a life in Upper Kheng, the UK times of my time. 

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Saturday, February 7, 2015

Tingtibi, Zhemgang, Bhutan

Everything is new at Tingtibi. Foremost, the place itself is new for me. Go to the office, bazaar, and hospital; people are new. The work and office that I am going to head again are new. As I look in any direction, I can only see those huge mountains that block everything and even the mobile network, again a new thing to experience. The only old I could see is when I look beyond, at the beautiful sky. 

The pristine nature is inspiring to live in. The beautiful Mangdechu River flows beneath the arch bridge, and it is refreshing to stand on for sightseeing. A little above the bridge is a small town plateaued on the slope. Every corner of the town has a small branch office except for the Bank of Bhutan. 

Beyond those huge mountains, to explore and see what exists, travel to Trongsa, Zhemgang, and many new places in Zhemgang is yet to be prepared. Soon I will leave for a hot spring excursion. I have many more beautiful places to explore and add to my list of life experiences. 

For now I wish you a happy weekend. Enjoy~ Forget not to wear your smile~


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