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Showing posts with label Sex and Youth. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sex and Youth. Show all posts

Friday, March 1, 2013

Stature!!

Sorry, the information may be wrong and untrue but the incident is fact, not fictitious. At times I think such happens and trust it happened for reasons! 

For the fact of being human and our head held high, where knowledge is free justifies we are advanced than any other living beings on earth! Who cares if we don’t know how to handle our own life? Ultimately it boils down to an individual.

It is ridiculous to know we are so sexy. The society itself has befallen to be sexy! What is there if we can align with society? And what if we can’t? The natural thing that we have to know and act is we have to align with society and move accordingly in our own way so that it doesn’t guilt us. We have our own philosophies and guiding principles to be what we want to be. May be those girls are funneled through philosophies and principles that they get laid and move on!! 

Can our society accept the status of being prostitutes? Can this happen in near future or is it happening or is it the moving road for their future? Does it mean you are so sexy or the guys are? Or is it that they choose the negative direction in fork of their life. I couldn’t get the right answer. May be I ask myself the wrong question and intuited wrong. 

People declare capital city as the hub for enjoyment and opportunities.  Their simple justifications are, there are many drayangs, parties, hang out at night to faraway places like Sangaygang, Bhuddha point etc… bushes are very thick and bit safe.  

Getting out of taxi unless you are sexed, passing dirty comments to men passing by, raising their sexy brows are the few incident that I myself encountered and initial through friends. 
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Sometimes taxi drivers are in trouble for they have to make love with the customer when they refuse to get out. I was completely astonished when a driver narrated such story. Is it existent? I inquired him more than twenty times I think!! “Don’t you believe me? Stay here at Thimphu, you will know the situations”; he argued. I was left without a word to reply him!  

I was waiting for my brother at booking, it was too long. I was so bored. I went to nearby stalls to have tea and momo. Almost immediately I reach the stall, few young girls said, “Acho have tea here, have momo, have hot tea, and have juice otherwise”. It will be ok for someone like me if there is one voice uttering all these. But it is mixture of different voices with seductive notion. Though it is their strategies to sell what they have but after awhile their comment changes. I got lost in chaotic voices. And moreover I was blushed when they said, “Acho phorab, Nuchu Phorab”, and so many unwanted terminologies they use. I didn’t know how to react. Lucky will be me if I have the power to vanish then and there.  

And I know there are many unfortunate and fortunate who are breathing in the city. There are countless orphans, broken family girls, unqualified for what they desire, waving hands for help and instead greedy men mistake them for and seduce.  They give their today for tomorrows! Men twist their life like a sandal in a bin. I respect our beautiful ladies in the town and we should but what if such is the situation?

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Sex and Society


 As a man who has moved past his youth and as a twenty-two-year-old male, I often find my mind wandering to inappropriate thoughts, as some people might say. Impure thoughts about the opposite sex are a common part of our day-to-day life. Yet we should never use sex as a game.

As we go through our adolescence stage, exploring our sexuality comes naturally. We thoroughly enjoy it, but at what point does curiosity become detrimental?

A good friend of mine was telling me the story of how a bunch of people decided it would be fun to play a sex game at a very wild party. They placed a bag over a girl's head, put her in a room, and then the young men would take turns having sex with her in the room. It was ultimately revealed that her brother engaged in sexual activity with her while her face was obscured.


I can't tell if this story is actually true or a terrible rumor, but the level that our generation takes in exploring people's sexuality disturbs us.
I am not saying that sex is only appropriate when we're in love. Sex is wonderful, but when do you begin to lose your integrity?
The way people view SEX in today’s society is basically the total opposite of how people viewed it 50 years ago. Back then it was seen as something to do in private. Today it’s considered a way to sell clothes, cars, movies, etc.

The real problem in today’s society is how teens view sex. We, as young people, should be informed about sex. Some guys may view it as something that the sooner you have sex, the better, and the more you have it, the cooler you are. Girls perceive it as an activity to pursue after approximately six months of dating.

In today's world, there is no such thing as innocence. For all the parents reading this, if you think your kid is having sex, you're right, and if you don't, then think again. As far as how adults in today’s society view sex, it’s fairly easy to guess. Everything we see on TV, Internet ads, and newspaper ads was conceived by adults, so their view is clear.

I think we should start to curb our curiosity and gain a little self-control if we want to look back with pride at our youth. If things continue the way they're going pretty soon it'll be a common thing to see middle school kids buying condoms and 12 year olds having abortions.

I’m not saying the way the world views sex is apocalyptic, but changes should definitely be made if we want to retain some sort of innocence and decency in our society.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Sex Sex Sex


Don’t mind if anyone read this. Actually I was busy with my studies. When I was studying, such grimy thinking strikes my mind. And I feel it’s interesting.

There are two things people can't have too much of in this life - one is money, and the other is sex. While most people will never be really rich, everyone can have as much sex as they want. Sex is the most fun you can have without laughing, and it makes you feel good. It makes sense.

Our bodies are formed to enjoy pleasure. We crave it, we need it, want more of it.


Sex is everywhere. It's in movies, on TV, in books and magazines, and all over the Internet. These things are hobbies taken up by nearly everyone in the world. And it's quite obvious that sex is unavoidable.Sex is an enjoyable experience. Studies indicate that people, who enjoy regular sex sleep better, live longer and are generally healthier than their abstinent counterparts.

If a girls are in a new relationship they fear that boy is only after sex. This is what each every girl say whenever a boy propose. And it is advisable not to jump straight into bed with partner. And it’s better make sure that we spend time together and do activities "Other than sex" to keep a relationship strong and gain more trust in our partner. Actually relationship includes sex with passion and desire. Instead of just sex this is more like "making love" and sharing our body and soul with partner. And some have sex for fun.

Ultimately, sex is a preference. How often we have sex depends on our body and how comfortable we feel in sharing it with someone else. There is no such thing as too much sex as long as we are aware of how it affects both our mind and body.

Its really funny to think such while studying.