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Monday, February 25, 2013

Drayang

Entertainment industry is blooming in the country. If you want to get your imagination tune to the romance in the screen, there are always explicit movies releasing every year, best of the best. And if you want to get entertain involving physically, there are Drayangs. Irrespective of what you do and where you work, only one common thing that we people need is entertainment. Entertain to relieve you from stress, burden, and depression and entertain to entertain! 

People from all walk of life visit drayangs, May be most the lonely punks. I was astonished for when I saw a man with walking stick!! For me I was first timer on Friday (22/02/2013). There were mostly young guys, middle age tummy oriented men, and few ladies. The entrance was air tight and the moment it open to welcome me and my friends, we are lucky that we didn’t blown off by the loud music ever heard.


The ambiance was totally different. May be since I am for the first time, I intuited wrong. I was totally lost in gloomy introspection. Girls, employee of the drayangs, entertained patrons through the so called, request.  Everything for me seemed sexually alluring. They dance or sing depending upon the comment from the customer whom they requested. Actually it will be worth visiting with exact goal of entertainment. 


I was wedged in between my friends to prevent unnecessary slip-up. After a while, a girl came with a book for the request. I was smiling for when my friends parley the request. My friend dropped a bombshell by asking the girl to go for me for the same. I didn’t know anything to ask or do. I gave her wide smile. Then she asked for a request with a story, which is heart touchy for me. She was so please!

One that came to me has a different story to tell. Everything for her is shrouded in secrecy. She is in agony of her separated parents, lost of her dear mother and the misery of mistreatment from step mother. She is the one that suffer melancholy once she gets dress up for the duty and undress for the bed time. And she forgets her grief in the loud music. 

When you get to them, they will have their own touching story to tell. After hearing those stories, you’ll feel like to blame our society. Definitely society isn’t fair for them. All most everyone still looked down as a mean job. We need to change our attitude. Change an attitude. Have an ethic and be ethical for what purpose you go there. Better we don’t label their profession with prostitutes or call girls. They are standing on their own feet and better we not generalize and downcast their state of survival. Definitely if we change our notion, their profession will become desirable to all and at this age such entertainment platform should become most sought-after leisure.


Saturday, February 23, 2013

Bureaucrats and Politicians Vs Engineers!!

“hey man can u come up with an articles which mainly beats around "how challenging to an engineer" initially struggle with the studies, once in service it’s even more challenging to face all sort of bureaucrats and politicians, where nobody appreciates the efforts engineers put in instead we bear brunt of everyone...”

Firstly, let me thank Mr. Phunthso Wangdi, Chota Don, for having suggested the topic on my Facebook page.  Because maybe he is afraid of bureaucrats and politicians, or maybe he finds engineering too difficult and challenging while in study, plus in the field that’ll nullify his effort when bureaucrats and politicians get involved.

Engineering in Bhutan is associated with all hype and popularity. The only college in the country offering an engineering degree admits only the top students from various high schools. Only a few students are sent out of the country for various engineering courses to meet the market demand. Still the demand is so high, and the benefits and satisfaction that the rank offers are excellent. 

Students opt for engineering, basically for two reasons. One reason is the parent’s insistence on a greater choice of career. No parent desires to witness their child merely surviving on a meager existence. The number two reason is self-interest. If someone has joined an engineering college because they love engineering, they will be well informed about the future and the enormous effort they will make to substantially contribute to the growth of the country. 

Pursuing engineering isn't as easy as you sometimes may expect. There are loads of burdens of analysis, research, projects, etc., that you have to bear, and sometimes you get buried under them. Scoring the highest possible in high school and expecting the same in the engineering college won’t suffice for your survival in engineering studies. But we should definitely be good at math, though not necessarily geniuses. We should have logic for solving problems scientifically. 

Since Bhutan is in the developing stage, most of the students choose the traditional engineering—civil engineering. Everywhere we go, we can see construction blossoming in the country. The fresh green forest is revolutionizing the concrete jungle. A civil engineer is responsible for using their civil engineering background to plan and oversee various construction efforts in many different areas of this field. They will apply civil engineering principles to ensure that structures are constructed in the safest, sturdiest manner.

On a daily basis, civil engineers engage in many general responsibilities. They analyze various factors concerning a construction job. They analyze the proposed construction site location as well as the entire construction job, which is to be done and completed at the site. They will analyze the process for completing the construction job every step of the way.

The civil engineer must also plan the construction project that will be taking place in conjunction with the results they found due to their analysis of the proposed project. During the process and at the end, the civil engineer must inspect the product to ensure that all rules, regulations, and guidelines have been explicitly followed. 

When a country develops, there are always conflicts between bureaucrats, technocrats, and politicians. The need for bureaucracy results primarily from modernization. Due to the progress of bureaucratization, it encourages democracy. And now we are a democratically elected monarchy. It is a well-known fact that the government accomplishes its precision, speed, and consistency through well-trained staffs of bureaucracies.

In the practice of civil engineering, government bureaucracies’ main function is to ensure fairness, prevent procedural lapses, and shield the negative externalities of development. However, in the process of maintaining fairness and equity through bureaucratic processes, administrators end up processing a high amount of discretionary authority. Citizens too have the right to investigate alternatives and to participate in the decision-making process about how to go about the agenda, which ultimately affects their environment, which is the democratic standard.

There are instances where the effort of the engineer is never appreciated, and they have to ‘bear the brunt of everyone.' It may be because we don’t have the form of government in which experts in technology control decision-making—technocracy. Engineers are tagged corrupt. People say engineers are corrupt because they get more money and are well-off compared to other professions. Their incentives are good. Their work outside the office paid them well. They use more energy, time, and skills to get work done. What is there when someone uses more effort for the benefits of others? 

In the eye of the bureaucrat, whatever visual inspection is possible will not be technically feasible. Their visual possibility of judging may prove wrong technically and scientifically. The technical possibilities and stability for the safety and welfare of people are essential for engineering works; in fact, politicians and bureaucracies should not be blamed for the work done by technocrats. Administrators should not at least wish to get engineering work done according to their lame excuse of authority they possess. 

Yes, everyone has the right and responsibility if the structure or anything that is the result of engineering fails before the stipulated time and causes nuisance instead of mitigation. Whatever is burnt and whatever consequences there will be, engineers should be responsible and questioned for it. And we all should have the fact intact that, through cooperation, we can move ahead for the betterment of our promising tomorrows. 

So, we should never forget that civil engineers work hard. Hours can be long, government funding cuts can destroy a project, deadlines are firm, and weather can throw projects off schedule. If the timetable degenerates, an engineer has to overcome scheduling obstacles with ingenuity. Most of the engineers who are employed in the government sector must be ready for bureaucratic delays, political stalls, and lots and lots of paperwork. Satisfaction is strong; most wouldn’t trade their occupation for any other.

Thursday, February 14, 2013

A Special Funny Valentine Message!


Definitely sometimes we have feelings for someone but we are not sure if they feel the same way. To share our feelings straight out is scary and leaves us very vulnerable.  On Valentine's Day or mostly on Fools’ Day (April fool), we write a humorous poems or epistle one that feels light and sweet, in order to find out whether they have feelings for us. In this way we won't get hurt if they are not interested and you've shown that you are interested if they are. This is a safe way to make our feelings known without getting hurt and rejected. 

There are always more singles then couples in whatever institutes it may be. Whenever the day in which couples celebrate, singles folk together and have loads of fun reminiscing past and foreseeing the blind alley future. 

For sure almost all the conversations shared from every individual are hilarious. It is so droll, when we wish for, what if there is Night Hunting practice in colleges. And what if there is in rotation shifting of a guy from one girl to another! It is so funny that whenever we meet everyone giggles.
Anyways those are the funniest wish if and when singles gets together for time pass. No hurt feelings for anyone. 

Hope the day signifies the dignity of your love for your closed dear that you wanna hold for the rest of your life. It is the day where you tell your significant others how much you love each other. Hope the gift that you got is filled up with the hunted happiness of the world, which is molded to simple thing if you may seem. Hope your partner talks through your eyes, lives in your heart and shower the nectars of happiness ever!

Happy Valentine, happy Valentine, Happy valentine!!!


Friday, February 8, 2013

Trashi Delek!

The sun was clear and shining to its paramount beauty. The day was clear and jovial. The night was cool when I felt a cold draft and the torch started to flicker. Everyone was asleep. I was waiting for the world to end! But it didn’t happen. The globe is still revolving. Everything is as usual and it gave me a thought to condemn who the damn idiot was, who envisage to end the world in 2012. 

I was at village when the 2012 ended and when fresh new 2013 began. I couldn’t wish anyone, except my village friends, a happy new year 2013. And thank you all who tagged me on Facebook for the wonderful and inspiring New Year messages. I had wonderful New Year Losar and hope you all had the same. 

World will not end. Sun will not set permanently. The seasons will not change. The people dwelling on earth will change and say whatever nonsense they can. They will predict that you will die soon or may be after few years. He/she will be tagged with expiry date. But the fact is that person will laugh after his expiry date too. And to the extent of great nuisance people predicted that the world will end in 2012! People don’t have the limit!
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And now let’s hope for the beautiful times ahead. Let’s look back and be thankful for the wonderful memories of previous year. There is Fork in the road of life and Hope you choose the right way that’ll not lead to the misery. May we live in a world at peace with the awareness of God's love in every sunset.  May every flower's unfolding petals will remind you of blooming journey ahead. May every baby's smile will remind you of new life and fresh idea. May every lover's kiss will reminds you of love and compassion.  And may every wonderful, astonishing, miraculous beat of your heart will remind you of having a better smiling tomorrows. 

Hope, may you remember or wish to say I love you at least once a day to your spouse, your child, your parent, and your siblings; and hope not to your secretary, your nurse, your masseuse, your student or your instructor. 

Happy New year 2013! and Happy Losar!


Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Politics in Democracy


Globe in front of you has to revolve a lot to locate Bhutan on it. Country that’s hard to find on the map revolved through times to transit from so called the land-locked. It was unlocked from Monarchy to Democratic Monarchy first ever in 2008 and we are democratically elected monarchial government. It is almost five years old. 

We had only two political parties, Druk Phuntshum Tshogpa (DPT) and People’s Democratic Party (PDP) for the current government election. The motto of DPT is “Equity and Justice” while to “Walk the Talk” is PDP’s. 

Now the time is approaching for Bhutanese to be extra careful with their thumb for which they shall vote for. There are five political parties in total. Recently three new political parties joined the election market vying for better quantity of votes. They are Druk Ngyamrub Tshogpa, Druk Chirwang Tshogpa, and Bhutan Kuen-Ngyam Party. 

In democracy the quality of votes doesn’t counts. The quantity matters a lot. For this you have to be careful to choose the right candidate from your constituency. The better choice you make the better enlighten citizen you are. Even the vagabond has the right to vote for. And can you call him the better enlighten citizen? The better choice for the better promising tomorrows will decide the strength of our nation. 

You have the fallacy of calling politics a dirty game and you don’t want to get involve. Sorry if you don’t have. There is no dirty game at all. There are only dirty players. That is it! The choice is yours whether to vote for dirty player or not. In near future everything will be outcome of politics. The air you breathe will be the result politics. The water you will drink the education that your children will get and the medicine you’ll take will be the result of politics. By not getting involved you are already involved. 

With more than seventy percent of population living in rural area, more vulnerable are we that the Politian triumphs over creating the reality of docile population. Because politicians tries to pick words and use words to shape reality and control reality. But the fact is more often reality changes words far more than words can ever change reality. Words are at center of politics and all politicians know they have to try and control language.  

Moreover the diplomacy of the educated middle class will stir the gear and topple the biggest game of election. 

There are many questions that one has to ask before voting for the party which you may think shall be ruling. Can you afford to send your children to college when financial institutions stop lending loans and when Royal University of Bhutan has become autonomous, when your son/daughter has to pay tuition fees which are not at all worth comparing the quality of tutors? And moreover the modules are credited depending on the degree of importance and have to pay equally. 

What if you have to pay for the medical facilities when the hospitals are not well equipped with the basic necessities and when the check up is not up to the standard of what we desire to be! And what if you have to wait for a day or half to get checkup with the simple sickness like headache, cough and cold…Etc.

I must not to be judgmental about the political parties and rather I’ll vote for the right party that’ll serve for the betterment of our nation. Let’s stop playing one against another. Let’s all be responsible and make our country a hub for happiness.