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Tuesday, June 18, 2013

I Wish Happiness for all



“To my Apa Wangchuk: I know you are with cattle and busy guarding the maize field. After tiring day work you attend your non-formal education class and mother always complain about your age in joining young to learn. You brought tears to mesmerize me how mannerism is unavoidable for humanism and today a day without you I feel incomplete and yea I am coming home dad!! See you with your smile and notebook of your nice handwriting!! — feeling excited”.

This was my status on facebook on fathers’ day. I am so excited that more than thirty people liked it. And still few more likes are coming in. This is my first ever status that ever got liked from my friends. When I meet my friends they got to pour their smile and wish me safe journey. And wish for happy times with my dad and cattle back home. Thank you everyone for your love and support. 


Today is the birth anniversary of Guru Rinpochhe. On this auspicious day I want to wish all the people around the globe that to pray for your happiness without forgetting the happiness that you will give to others since the perfume of happiness can’t be poured to others without getting a single drop on you first. We always hurry to grow as fast as possible to do and act what our adults do to have fun and the process continue till the point  where you realize actually you were wrong. Let you grow naturally. Let you pick up naturally with times. 

In this modern arena, it is now important that we study every part starting from your inner essence to surrounding that surrounds you.  Everything needs to be protected to have fun. The world is crying over global warming, dangerous tsunamis, flash floods, GLOF etc etc… you need to protect mother earth. 

As said earlier, in the process of having and trying to have fun, it is important that you have to have space for others to have fun. There can’t be such as only you having a fun. If others are suffering will you have fun? This is the question that I want to leave for you to answer. It is important that you be kind and compassionate. 

Good lUck

Monday, June 17, 2013

I am again a year old more



I am surprised when one of my friends wrote on my facebook wall – happy birthday day. I was not aware of my own birthday. A month before I promise to remind me to myself of my birthday a day before. But I forgot. Promise breaker to myself... hahaha...
Today I am writing my birthday post in Dzongkha (National language of Bhutan) and please bear with my spelling mistakes.

A month ago from my birthday and still I am looking the same!!
 གཞན་གྱི་ག་ཅིག་མནོ་རུང་  རང་ནི་ཕ་མ་བཟང་པོ་ལུ་སྐྱེས་ནུག་མནོ་མས།     ཕ་བཟང་གི་བུ་རིག་བཟང་མེད་དེ་རང་འབད་   རུང་            མི་མང་གི་སྦུག་ནང་ལུ་བཟང་ལྷམ་ལྷམ་འབད་སྡོད་ཚུག་མི་འདི་གཙོ་བོ་རང་གི་ཕམ་གྱི་བཀའ་དྲིན་ཨིན་    མས།      ཕ་བཟང་གི་བུ་            ད་རེས་སྐྱེས་བའི་ཉིནམ་ལུ་   རང་ལས་ཆ་རོག་ཚུ་ལུ་དགའ་སྤྲོའི་ཐོག་ལས་ག་ཅིག་        རང་བྱིན་ནི་མས་རུང་            སྤྱིར་འཛམ་གླིང་ནང་འགྲོ་བ་རིག་དྲུག་སེམས་ཅན་ཐམས་ཅད་       བདེ་སྐྱིས་ཀྱི་ངང་            ལུ་སྡོད་ཅུག་མནོ་བའི་སྨོན་ལམ་དང་བཅད་ལྷག་པར་དུ་   འབྲུག་རྒྱལ་ཁབ་ནང་ལུ་གཞི་བདེ་གི་རྩ་བ་དགའ་སྐྱིད་            བྱུང་ཅུག་ཟེར་སྨོན་ལམ་དང་ཅིག་ཁར་            ག་ར་ལུ་རང་ལུ་བཀྲིས་བདེ་ལེགས་ཀྱི་ལེགས་སྨོན་སྟབས་ནང་མི་            ལུ་ཧིང་ལས་རང་བཀའ་དྲིན་ཆེ་ཟེར་ཞུ་ནི་ཨིན་ལགས།།
ད་རེས་རང་གི་ཕམ་རང་དང་ཅིག་ཁར་མེད་རུང་           རང་འཛམ་གླིང་ནང་སྐྱེས་ནང་མི་ལུ་སེམས་ཀྱི་ཧིང་ལས་རང་            བཀའ་དྲིན་ཆེ་ཟེར་ཞུ་ནི་དང་           འབྲུག་རྒྱལ་ཁབ་ནང་མི་དབང་ཡབ་སྲས་གཉིས་ཀྱི་དབུ་རྩེད་དེ་འབངས་            མི་སེར་ཚུ་ག་ར་དགའ་སྐྱིས་ངང་ལུ་    ལུས་ལ་ན་ཚ་མེད་  ཐུགས་ལུ་འཁྲུལ་བ་མེད་         གསུངས་ལ་དགག་པ་མེད་    པར་            དུས་ཨ་རྟག་རང་དགའ་སྐྱིས་ཀྱི་ཉིནམ་ཤར་ཅུག།།          
སྐྱེས་བའི་འགྲོ་བ་སངས་རྒྱས་ང་།།       ཕ་དང་མ་གི་གསོ་བའི་བུ་ཚུ་རང་།།     ད་རེས་སྐྱེས་བ་སྟེན་འགྲེན་བཟང་།།                 མི་ཚེས་འདི་ནང་འགྲོ་བ་ཀུན་ལ་ཕན།།             ཚེས་དང་ཉམ་པའི་སྟོབས་སྦྱོར་རང་མི་འགོ།།            རང་ཉམ་ཡོན་ཏན་ཉིན་ཚན་མེད་པར་བྱང་།།    འཇིག་རྟན་འདི་ནི་མི་སྟག་རང་ཞིན་ཡིན།།        དམ་པའི་ལྷ་ཆོས་སྒྲུབས་པ་རང་མ་འགྲོ།།            ཡིན་ཀྱང་དགེ་བཅུ་རྟག་ཏུ་དང་དུ་ལྷང་།།      མི་དགེ་བཅུ་པོ་ཕར་རང་སྤངས།།        མི་ཚེས་ཉམ་ཆུང་བཟོ་བ་རང་གི་ལས།།             ཡི་གུ་དྲུག་མ་དུས་བྱུན་འགྲང་།།         ཚེས་དང་ཉམ་པར་སྒྲུབས་པར་བྱིན་གྱི་རློབས།།  
ཨོཾ་ཨཱཿ་ཧཱུྃ་བཛྲ་གུ་རུ་པདྨ་སིདྡྷི་ཧཱུྃ
ཨོཾ་མ་ཎི་པདྨེ་ཧཱུྂ།།

Thank you all well wishers for wishing me on facebook.


Sunday, June 16, 2013

Anonymous goes viral on my blog

I started blogging three years back. It was hard for me to stay current with my blog, "Random Thoughts," which contains my various reflections. It is always difficult for me to turn my thoughts into words. But I do like to play with words and construct them into whatever I can. It is always good and lovable to read as a diary, and sometimes I doubt myself: did I really write this piece? The journey of writing when I am poor in vocabulary, and even then, when I finally manage to see in black and white, I feel a sigh and a real wow! 

Three years ago, my writing was too immature for the readers. The page view count button remains constant. I started following blogs, and in return they do follow me. I started commenting my thoughts and thanking the respective authors for sharing their beautiful articles. My zeal for reading and writing increased, and consequently, following many bloggers and sharing my little writing on Facebook and other social media, the network of bloggers was thus shaped. When more and more flocking among bloggers increased, the anonymous comments started flowing in. The page view button accelerates to count how many visit the site, which is not worth visiting but feels great with inspiring comments and is too depriving for the inaccurate content of the post. 

I don’t fully understand why people choose to comment anonymously. Daily I get forty to fifty spams. I never accept the spam. Almost every post displays numerous anonymous comments. And it is unlucky, especially for the popular posts. The moment I see my post jumped to the list of popular posts, it is definite that it is being chased with anonymous comments. At times I find it so difficult to delete them. 

I am happy that many are going through what I have written. I am unhappy that they raise their voice anonymously.  Almost everyone comments with only the notion to promote their business. From car rental to travel agent and flight business, they find the time to comment with good words and leave their website ID on my website. Honestly, I'm not sure if I can fly around the world with their flight, travel agent, and car rental business in Europe.  What disgusts and frustrates me is when they leave comments to promote their sex website. I am not interested in getting naked online, and moreover, I am in a society where sex is still a taboo topic. 

One very imperative piece of feedback I got from anonymous is about the layout and loading time. They appreciate me for the easy loading of its contents. But few say in some browsers the image gets overlapped. I know in Firefox and Chrome everything is fine; nonetheless, I am finding ways how I can make a uniform appearance for all browsers. 

Your kind words always inspire me to write more. I write more with a smile. I will write more with a smile. I will try reading all your comments. I am sorry if I can’t if I delete them. Though it is spam, I do my part to read it. It is fluky great that few aren’t spam. 


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Saturday, June 15, 2013

Traveling Abroad on a Budget



22 years old KC Omen, student at St. Bonaventure University in the United States loves travelling. In email he requested me to upload his traveling abroad plan with limited budget to share with diverse audience. And I agreed to share since I love traveling too.
Here it is…

Like most college students, I often find myself worrying about many different things. If I’m not worrying about paying my tuition, I am stressed about studying for my exams. Luckily, I have found ways to alleviate this worry; and as a result, I am able to release a lot of my stress. By taking a trip abroad every year, I am often able to feel rejuvenated to continue with my college education. However, I have to always ensure that my trip does not cost me more money than I can truly afford. Even though I am a college student on a very strict budget, I still find ways to travel at a very low cost.


The Important Financials:
As mentioned previously, I often worry about paying my tuition and being able to afford to buy something to eat. Therefore, some people may wonder how I’m able to travel abroad. By simply doing a little research, I was able to find two ways to help me with my travel expenses. First, I decided to apply for a traveler-specific credit card. My card served one essential purpose: it allowed me to be able to pay for my plane ticket. I would be able to make small monthly payments on the balance over time and make it a little more manageable.
I also received a little help with my travel expenses by applying for travel grants through my university. In my current major, I could do some research while I was abroad. The travel grants gave me the opportunity to have more money in my pocket when I took my trip. Whether it is a new line of credit and small monthly payments or a travel grant, there are ways to get out there and travel, you just have to do some research ahead of time.


How to Carry your Life:
Unlike many of the other passengers that I would see on the plane, I decided not to invest in a set of luggage. First, I did not want to deal with the hassle of carrying so many pieces of luggage around with me. Also, I did not want to have to pay more money for extra pieces of luggage or for one extremely heavy piece of luggage. In order to eliminate these problems, I simply invested in one large backpack. With the backpack, I was forced to pack lightly. Therefore, I could carry the bag with me on long walks to the hostel or anywhere else I went. Most importantly, I was able to purchase this bag for a very cheap price. I was able to buy my pack at the local mall for less than forty dollars.


The Must-have List:
Finally, I also had to be very conservative with the items that were a must to take along with me. The most important item was my wallet. Not only did my wallet contain my identification card, but it also contained all of my cash and credit cards. I made sure to invest in pants that had pockets with zippers, and I was especially sure to keep my wallet zipped up at all times. Also, I made sure that the shoes I brought along with me were tennis shoes. With all the walking I do, I need a durable pair of shoes. I also made sure that they would also look nice with a pair of khaki pants. By wearing these types of shoes, I could walk comfortably to different destinations; however, I would still feel comfortable when I was in a more formal setting. Also, depending on the destination you are traveling to, it may be a good idea to bring some type of raincoat. I learned this lesson the hard way and participating in a walking tour while soaking wet was not fun.
KC Omen


KC Owens has written and submitted this article. KC is a college student who loves traveling, college life, fitness and a good survival kit. He enjoys studying different cultures, meeting new people and leaving his footprint somewhere most people only read about.



Sunday, June 2, 2013

࿉ I offer my Condolences


The world turns around with wholly realms and sufferings. Neither can I afford to stop you nor can I overcome you, the death. You simply swept away whoever came your way, be they rich, poor, simple, arrogant, vagabond, or intelligent. And yet the prey don’t know the time of your arrival. And thus you become a leveler. This is how you snatch away my friend one day before. 


We were good friends. It may not be more than a year or less of being friends with you on Facebook. Facebook was our medium to know everything about us. I shared with her everything. Everything we converge to know more and more in every chat we had.

Without a doubt, I felt that I knew her through every bit of her life and as a girl. She was who she loves to be loved. She was who cares to be taken care of. She was also the victim of her love, and I could easily figure that out based on every condemned status. 



She used to say how her life is and how far she can go before her death. And I thought she shared everything about her. 

But I was wrong. I was wrong, for I didn’t really know the biggest suffering that she has tried to endure. She shared happiness and laughter with all and bore the pain all alone. Never will I be able to help her succeed in fighting the sickness, but I would have at least made her happy, for she required a lot. She didn’t reveal to me. She left me in no doubt, confirming to me that I know her best. She was so greedy to let me know, thinking of my pain knowing her disease. 


She left the college fighting for the pain. She was the lone daughter of her working parents. 


After learning about her departure from her parents and friends, I checked her profile. It was so painful, and my heart melted off with loads of regret and compassion. The status on her wall meant a lot. Each and every second of her life, she struggled to live better. She already knew the world was going to end for her. I still feel bad for her because she chose not to share her suffering. In the early morning, exactly a month after our chat, she left us behind by succumbing to cancer. 


These are the list of painful status of her on Facebook Wall:


‘I can’t change my past and I am left with no future... Few months left’. This was her last status with so much pain and feelings that she loves to go back and see the future. 


On 3rd May: ‘The day seems so beautiful 2day. How lovely was she for a moment at that instant? And I feel the pain.  


On 2nd May; ‘Tim 2 time... Sec by sec... My life is getting near to death. I want 2 lives 4ever...... At this point she was suffering a lot with everything knowing that she is leaving behind and on this I commented saying ‘that itself shows that it’s your life!! The leveler we can't have choice as to when we want!!’ And for her the leveler was all known before. Why you didn’t tell me before? 


On 1st may; ‘Life is beautiful... I realize few days b4 only’.

On 20th April; ‘Wish everything was normal with me but unlucky I have 2 leave’.

On 16th April; ‘When u r death.... Pain of outside wont able to kill u once more...’


On 16th April; ‘Truth hurts then y 2 tell truth.... Lie is better...haha’. How jovial and kiddy was she at this moment? 


No outsider can understand the bereavement. And hope with time goes by; it becomes bearable for her dear and near one specially parents left behind steady with so much pain. I offer my deepest condolence and prayer for her soul to rest in peace.