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Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Who am I?

No one is the same. Each person on earth is unique. We have our own physical characteristics. Some of us have red hair, some have blue eyes, some are tall, and some are too short. We differ in personalities. Some are shy, some stubborn, and some fearless. There are characteristics that we were born with and some we inculcate through our experiences. And we are never conscious enough to notice such vivid things that matter in our daily lives. 

When you don’t know who you are, the consequences can serve as a lesson. You will not remember how you have lived your past. You will not enjoy how you are going with the present. And you will not see the future. 

It is difficult to die young. It is detrimental to make mistakes. Knowing the truth about your life is a burden, but it spares you from the misery of ignorance. Negligence and societal pressures can prevent you from realizing your full potential, causing the aroma of youth to fade quickly. 

Decisions are critical in your life. If you want to drive your own life, you had better be a good driver yourself. It is better to decide now on your own and live a life that is worth living. Decide on whom you want to spend the rest of your life. There are many boys and girls without parents and brought up under the care and guidance of uncles and aunts. And there are millions who are lucky enough to live with dear parents. The day will come for everyone to live and lead a life of their own. And the best motivation is to get married. 

Marry the choice of your heart. Bury and blend the suggestions and feedback with the love you receive from your parents or someone you depend on. It is indeed a curse for some to bury their true inner essence of love out of fear of the seeming rejection you offer if they do not go along with your choice.
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Once upon a time in a village called Bayyuel, there lived a beautiful girl. She was living with her aunt and uncle. When she was in class ten, her parents got divorced, and there was no destiny for her since then. Father went with stepmother, and her mother couldn’t live long enough to see how her left-out kids grew up to face the challenging world. The only option left was to live with her aunt, who was her mother's elder sister. 

After class twelve, she didn’t continue her study. She chose to work. She was employed in an organization. Her aunt and uncle did almost everything for her. They also looked after her younger sisters and brothers. 

The biggest day came for her when her aunt asked her to marry a man of their choice. She has never known the man. She has not studied the man in depth. She was carried away in the fear of refusal and reaction from her aunt and uncle. Blindly she accepted the proposal and agreed that he was good and would be good throughout her life. Her life was decided by her aunt. 

But her notion proved wrong after a few months of being into married life. The real character of her husband as wild is known, and almost everything was a big bombshell for her. And she was busted into the wild with emotions, and thus again, the shadow appeared in her life. 

Decide your own life regardless of what others might say you should do; ultimately you are breathing independently.

7 comments:

  1. Moral of the Story: Follow ur Heart./Dont Marry in haste/ Decide and make your own decision/ dont let other make decission for u especially in marriage/ a ma shows his real face after marriage

    I liked the story. Its worth discussing and sometimes when you are hit closed only then can one understand the meaning of all this.

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    1. thank you for having your time and wonderful comment!

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  2. Hi Sangay, thank you for your encouragement on my blog for my 5k. I just added my email to receive an email when you write a post. I still have not received a notification through GFC or Bloglovin and I have no idea why. I am hoping I am not losing other people's posts as well.

    I think your post is great, we all need to chose for ourselves, living what other people chose will ultimately make us sad...

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    1. Thank you maim and I am writing to expert blogger about the issue.

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  4. beautiful... I loved going through each line.. its always better to live for yourself than living for others.. great....

    happy blogging

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