For those WHo gets Hurt!!

Once I was asked by a boy from my village, "What do you do with your girlfriend?" I said, "Nothing." I said nothing because he was too young to ask and know about it. And the same question I asked him back. "What are you going to do when you are in a relationship?" he replied. “I want to kiss her first and then follow the next…?”!! What could be next, probably sex? And that was what he meant!

These days most of the girls end up with tears! Their grievance is they went physical. Ahh! What is there when you are in or do physical relationships? It is very simple. When someone hurts you, cry a river, build a bridge, and get over it. 

What do you really do when you love a man? When you love a man, you would like to hold his hand. You would like to hug him sometimes, hear his sound, and see his face too. When your beloved is far away, you hear only his sound. The sound is not enough, I think. When you see him, you are more satisfied. And when he touches you, certainly you are more satisfied. And what? When you taste him, certainly I think you are even more satisfied. What is sex?! It is just a meeting of two deep energies. 

You can’t just use the man. And you can’t call it love at all. You want the man to bring you a luxurious car, expensive ring, and fur coat; take care of the house; and prepare meals! And you don’t want to share anything with him. 

When you love, you don’t have any secrets, and you share all. You are available when your heart is utterly open. When you love, you are ready to go with him wherever he leads you, even to hell if he is going. 

One thing you have to know is to consider and build your love before having sex. Almost every man has this tendency. He will think whether he loves you or not only after sex. 

I have seen enormous, gigantic trees. They are deep-rooted in the earth. If it is not deep-rooted, it may topple down due to strong wind. There are other factors that may topple the tree. If the tree wants to touch the sky, it should have to go very deep down. The higher it wants to go, the deeper it has to go into the earth. Be rooted in your sex if you really want to become a lover. More and more energy will be converted into love, and nobody will leave you behind. 

When many girls inquire about you, you will utter, "You hate love." Why hate love? Hate is not a right relationship with anything. Hate simply shows that you are afraid. Hate simply shows that there is great fear in you. Today’s women run after money, power, respectability, and prestige. If you really want to hate something, hate money, hate power, and hate prestige. Sex is natural; money, unnatural. Why hate love?