ལྷག་གནང་མི་ལུ་བཀྲིན་ལེགས་སོ་ཡོད།།

Total Pageviews

Tuesday, October 1, 2013

Who am I?



No one is same. Each person on earth is unique. We have our own physical characteristics. Some of us have red hair, some have blue eyes and some tall and some are too short. We differ by personalities. Some are shy, stubborn and some fearless. There are characteristics that we were born with and some we inculcate through our experiences.  And we are never conscious to notice such vivid stuffs which matters our daily lives. 

When you don’t know who you are there are chances that the consequences will teach, who really you are. You will not remember how you have lived your past. You will not enjoy how you are going with present. And you will not see the future. 

It is hard to die young. It is bad to make mistakes. It is burden to know the truth of how miserable will be if you don’t know the truth about your life. Under the influence of not knowing the best in you by the power of negligence and society, aroma of young will not continue far till the end. 

Decision is very important in your life. If you want to drive your own life better be yourself a good driver. It is better to decide now of your own and live a life worth living. Decide to whom you want to spend rest of your life. There are many boys and girls without parents and brought up under the care and guidance of uncle and aunt. And there are millions who are lucky enough to live with dear parents. The day will come for everyone to live and lead life of your own. And the best motivation is to get marry. 

Marry the choice of your heart. Bury and blend the suggestions and feedbacks with your love from your parents or someone whom you are dependent to. It is indeed curse for few to let bury their true inner essence of love in the fear of seem rejection that you are offering if you don’t go with their choice.
image from Google!!!

Once upon a time in a village called Bayyuel, there lived a beautiful girl. She was living with her aunt and uncle. When she was in class ten her parents got divorced and there was no destiny for her since then. Father went with stepmother and her mother couldn’t live long to see how her left out kids grow to face the challenging world. Only option left was to live with her aunt, the elder sister of her gone mom. 

After class twelve she didn’t continue her study. She chose to work. She was employed in an organization. Almost everything was done to her by aunt and uncle. Her younger sisters and brothers were too looked after by them. 

The biggest day came for her when she was asked by her aunt to marry a man of their choice. She has never known the man. She has not studied the man in depth. She was carried away in the fear of refusal and reaction from her aunt and uncle. Blindly she accepted the proposal and agreed that he was good and will be good throughout her life. Her life was decided by her aunt. 

But her notion proved wrong after few months of her into marriage life. The real characters of her husband as wild is known and almost everything was a big bombshell for her. And she was busted into the wild with emotions and thus again the shadow appeared in her life. 

Decide your own life no matter what others might say you to do, ultimately you are breathing independently.

9 comments:

  1. Moral of the Story: Follow ur Heart./Dont Marry in haste/ Decide and make your own decision/ dont let other make decission for u especially in marriage/ a ma shows his real face after marriage

    I liked the story. Its worth discussing and sometimes when you are hit closed only then can one understand the meaning of all this.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. thank you for having your time and wonderful comment!

      Delete
  2. Hi Sangay, thank you for your encouragement on my blog for my 5k. I just added my email to receive an email when you write a post. I still have not received a notification through GFC or Bloglovin and I have no idea why. I am hoping I am not losing other people's posts as well.

    I think your post is great, we all need to chose for ourselves, living what other people chose will ultimately make us sad...

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thank you maim and I am writing to expert blogger about the issue.

      Delete
  3. This comment has been removed by the author.

    ReplyDelete
  4. beautiful... I loved going through each line.. its always better to live for yourself than living for others.. great....

    happy blogging

    ReplyDelete

I will love to read your constructive criticisms for if I may deserve.