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Friday, December 16, 2011

To my friends

To my dear friends; when everything was set and fine, the wind of prejudice blew thy way. It doesn’t mean that you are total losers. It doesn’t mean that failure is fatal. It means that it is the greatest prospect to get up.

A Chinese proverb reads, "Failure is not falling down, but refusing to get up." it suggests, it is not the falling down that is the failure, it's the staying down.

When we fall short, experience a setback, or things just don't go our way, we have two choices: give-up or regroup. One of the biggest problems with failure is when we think it means something to our worth or our value. If we can frame failure differently and instead see it as an opportunity to learn and grow, then it stops being a source of self-criticism and self-doubt, and becomes a tool for self-improvement. You all can do my dear friends!

It’s important to remember that often a failure or setback can bring the kind of clarity that nothing else will. Failure can be viewed as a great gift, an opportunity for a new, creative approach to a specific situation, or maybe even to life in general. As Napoleon Hill once wrote, "Failure is nature's plan to prepare you for great responsibilities." What great responsibilities await you?

Good luck my dear friends we’ll miss you all a lot.

Dedicated to Phuntsho, Sonam, Tshering and Galay..

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Love II - ANger

Love and anger cannot coexist together. Anger will always push away love. A person cannot swallow poison and then remain healthy; so, too, a person cannot receive anger and still feel loving toward the angry person. We are not Jangchu Sempa. 

Negative feelings are always more powerful, pervasive, and long-lasting than positive feelings. One or two negative interactions will easily spoil ten or twenty positive interactions. Anger in the form of criticism, sarcasm, hostility, or cruelty, is a very strong negative emotion. Anger is "love's poison."

It is normal at times to feel irritated with your love one. We may not like how they prepare food, dress, talk with you, or the way they do something. At these moments, we have a choice. We can respond either with patience, kindness and understanding, or with judgment, anger and conflict. If we respond with anger and criticism, we will almost certainly ruin our relationship. I ended many relationships due to anger and conflict.
Guru Khentse Ozer

Successful relationships are built with love and respect. Anger and arguing will drive a wedge between us and our partner, making mutual feelings of love and respect impossible. Simply, if we want a loving relationship, keep anger out of our boundary!

Arguments between love birds are a necessary part of relationship, this is not true. The goal should be to never express anger, dispute, or get into a serious fight. Nobody wants to get sick. We do many things to avoid falling ill. However, when illness comes, we understand it is a normal part of life. The relationship between lovers is the same. We strive for continual peace and harmony.

Every relationship’s goal is to get together after sometime and be one. I was blessed to get advice about how to go about to get marriage in our life. “It is the toughest stuff in life. It can’t be easily dragged down, pushed away, get rid of. It will give you the severest headache. Even if you take five to six paracetamols at a time you won’t cure that headache”. This was the superb guidance specified by Guru Khentse Yeozer on 9/12/2011 when I visited him to get teaching about life.

Be careful and choose your partner!!!

Saturday, December 3, 2011

Love I - Introduction

To love or to hate someone or somebody depends on way of life were we have grown. No one is born with hatred to hate and to be hated. And no one is born with love to love and to be loved. But it develops and inculcates in self as we rise inch by inch and when we learn to be good human beings.

I was born all alone. Soon I came out from the womb I was in fact thrown out in the society of relations, where I learned to hate, love and list goes on... Because people around me hate me, love me, seduce me and too list never stop.

To love and hate someone or something, age doesn’t matter. I don’t remember when I started to disgust someone or something. But I evidently remember the instance when I have fallen for a girl. By then I was a small naughty petite village boy. It was great to know myself that I am in love. Despite the fact that I was small I felt the breezy wind of her smile touches my cheek.  And the sensation of being loved was so strong.

She was cute, shy and funny, but not lucky enough to go to school. She was Beautiful. I thought once I'm done with kindergarten, I'm going to find me a wife. 

If ever you need me,
I’ll be right here,
To chase away the sadness,
And wipe away a tear.

If ever you need me,
I’ll be two steps behind,
To follow in your footsteps,
And hear what’s on your mind.

If ever you need me,
You’ll never have to fear,
That your presence isn’t important,
And your love isn’t dear.

If ever you need me,
I’ll always be around,
To bring back the laughter,
Where deep in your heart it’s found.

You’ll never have to worry,
For I’ll always be here,
To chase away the sadness,
And wipe away a tear.

I am here for you!

Thank you Guys!

I was made-up to write about my love history as per my plan but I thought what if I could take time to let people know why I blog and who make me blog!! Thank you guys!! I am motivated!!

Wel come to the World of Blogging!! There is variety of reasons that made people blog. For starters blog is almost a free medium to everybody. There are no specific rules when it comes to blog. Anybody who could write and have internet may blog. That's why it is easy for people to blog.

Blog in itself is a unique culture. Nowadays it is perceived as a fashionable thing to own a blog and actively blogging. Just look around and we could see that just about everybody is blogging.

"I don't want to be left behind!" Blog is really the hot thing among Internet users. Every day the number of blogger has increased. Having a blog simply means you are a normal person. No blog means you are a cave man! So no wonder blog has become the fastest growing application of Internet other than e-mail and normal website.

Actually, there are people who blog out of curiosity. I apparently had no clue or reason at all to start a blog. I could just simply blog by chances and knowledge imparted by below mentioned friends. All of a sudden, I become addicted to blog when I found many benefits and enjoyment out of blogging.

Blog is really a great, if not wonderful place to keep our memory of good things. Blog could act as an archive of data and personal historic facts. We could upload pictures, write an emotional testimony, log of great journeys and love memory, anything at all. This data will be kept in a server which we could recall them back whenever we feel like to do.

Blog has also been used to champion a cause or to convey any great messages. It could be used to reach voters for example. Debates, discussion, expressing opinion, all of this could be done through blog.

For some, writing a blog could be restorative way of handling sadness or coping with tragedy. Believe it or not, we could actually write away all our sadness by sharing it with the world through blog. Blog could be a place to safely store our personal memory.

There are friendships or even love has been made out of blog. You could interact with other fellow blogger and exchange ideas and learn something new. The blogger who has done well also can get recognition by their peers. This only motivated them to do better with blog.

In some way blog actually could be used as a popularity gauge. More visitors to our blog simply means more glamorous we are as a personality. Personalities all over the world used blog to communicate with our respective followers or admirers.

Reasons aside, blog is actually a fun thing to do. Some people do blog to enjoy themselves. They just simply love to blog because they enjoy doing it. I don't need any motivation or cause like money, politic or anything for that matter. I just blog and enjoy myself. This I would say, the most envied reasons of all cause that made people blog.

So let's join the ship. Let's just blog for the sake of blog. It is really fun and great to have a blog.

My sincere thanks and applaud goes to the following personnel:

Sonam Tobgay (http://sogyeltobgyel.blogspot.com/)
Tshering Tobgay, OL (http://www.tsheringtobgay.com/)
Leoparisca (http://leythro-darlo.blogspot.com/)
Langa Tenzin (http://www.langatenzin.com/)
Monu Tamang (http://www.monutamang.com/)
Madam Sangdee (http://brokshee.blogspot.com/)
Kunzang Thinley (http://shingkhar.blogspot.com/)
Passang Tshering (http://www.passudiary.com/)
Lekey wangdi(http://lekeywangdi.blogspot.com/)